First Date Pitfalls – What Not To Do

OK, so you’ve been chatting for a while now and the two of you seem to be hitting it off. You’ve decided that the time is right to meet in person. Here are some tips for men and women to increase your chances of getting a second date.

  1. Avoid Negativity – Don’t be a downer. We all have baggage, but a first date is not the the appropriate time to bring it up. Don’t talk about what a loser your ex is, your problems at work or disputes with your family. Be positive. Focus on the moment and the person in front of you. Who knows where it might lead.
  2. Don’t Talk About Commitment – A first date is just that, a first date, a chance to get to know each other. Maybe it will lead to something else, maybe it wont. Don’t make premature assumptions about the future and especially avoid talk about marriage and children. If things work out and a relationship does develop, these topics will come up naturally in time.
  3. Limit Your Alcohol Consumption – This is not to say that you should avoid alcohol completely. A drink or two might actually be good thing. It can help you and your date relax and get over that first date awkwardness.  Just don’t go overboard and end up doing or saying things you will regret.
  4. Dress Appropriately – This applies to both men and women. Guys don’t wear running shoes with dress pants. Ladies, leave a little to the imagination. Its OK to wear clothing that flatters your figure, but if your boobs are falling out of your dress, perhaps you are showing a little too much cleavage. There is a fine line between sexy and trashy. Also dress appropriately for the occasion. High heels might not be the best choice for an outdoor sporting event. Likewise unless your date is at the gym sweat pants are rarely a good fashion choice. Above all wear something that is comfortable and makes you feel confident.
  5. Focus On Your Date – Smart phones are great, but sometimes you need to put the phone down and focus on face to face communication. Don’t phone or text your friends,  while on a date. Likewise for social media. Leave the Twitter and Facebook updates for later.  The same goes for distractions of the non electronic variety.  Do not schmooze with business acquaintances and don’t ignore your date if friends drop by.  Finally try not to let your eyes rove when someone hot enters the room.
  6. Don’t Get Hung Up On “Dating Rules” – Don’t take these or any other dating rules too seriously. None of these rules are written in stone. They are guidelines. Don’t fret over them. Many dating advice gurus  emphasize the importance of making a great first impression. One went so far as to liken a first date to a job interview and that if you say the wrong thing you’ll blow your chance.  Chill.  Don’t get so would up in making a first impression that you are stiff,  self-conscious and afraid of saying or doing the wrong thing. Be yourself and have fun. If it happens it happens.
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Phone Dating Tips

The main reason people engage in phone chat is to find potential dating partners. Life today is extremely busy and many people do not have adequate time for social interaction. Online dating provides you with an opportunity to interact with other people from the comfort of your home or office. This greatly reduces the time and cost of dating. It also helps you to find appropriate people who meet your desires and aspirations. Here are some tips for finding potential dates through our phone chat lines.

Create an intriguing profile

You should start by creating an intriguing profile. Your profile should capture the attention of people who are browsing for potential dates. It should indicate your desires as well as aspirations. Your profile should also indicate the type of people that you want to interact with. It is essential that you provide truthful information in order to create a long lasting relationship.

Be ready to talk to a lot of people

Our chat lines have a large number of people who are looking for potential dating partners. Each person has his or her own wishes and desires about their partners. Therefore, you should be prepared to talk to a large number of people. This will ensure that you get a person who you can relate to. It will also help you to discover the cultural differences when talking to people from different parts of the country. You will learn how to communicate effectively and also how to interact with people from all walks of life.

Target like-minded people

It is important to target like-minded people who share your aspirations and beliefs. We will help you target different categories of people. This will ensure that your search for a potential dating partner is convenient and effective. You will need to indicate the age, race as well as sexual orientation of your desired dating partner. Our free phone chat trial enables you to narrow down your search to a few like-minded people.

Feel free when getting intimate

Have fun while interacting with people on our phone chat lines. It is essential that you do not fear communicating your desires and needs to potential partners. You should be frank about what you want and never settle for what you do not want.  Your profile should indicate the type of person that you want to meet and communicate with. It should also indicate the type of person that you are as well as what gets your excited.

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